I have spent the last day e-mailing back and forth with my man’s girl. I do not know what the hell is going on with the two of them but I wish they would just get on with it. They have been sort of doing this dating dance forever – spending time together but always stopping just on the verge of actual sex - honestly I do not see what either one of them gets out of it.
He says that she can not accept the fact that it does not bother me. Honestly if there is any question after the last e-mail I sent then perhaps she is not that interested and he should maintain their relationship as a friendship. They might be more suited to friendship anyway – she seems to be more attracted to the type of ‘Doms’ that treat women like shit – and while he is skillful with a whip and cruel to my poor little nipples - he remains a generous lover and an attentive Master.
I know, however, that he would be disappointed if they lost their way with each other. He really appreciates her as a person – thinks that she is smart, funny and kind – which makes her exactly the type of person he would like to bend.
Truthfully I would be disappointed as well. It has been a long time since the last long term girl. We have known this girl for years and I love that they are mentally in sync with each other. I was looking forward to them being together.
I wonder how this is all going to work itself out…
Wow. Just, wow.
ReplyDeleteHave you seen that show on HBO, Big Love? about the Mormon Polygamists?
I often wonder how they accept sharing their man, but you speak about it in such a positive way.
I don't think I would deal well with my owner taking an interest in another woman. You say you are insecure, but I bet I am more so.
Nice blog, btw. And thanks for including mine on your list. It's how I found yours, by tracking back. Welcome to the blogosphere!
dk